Founder & CEO Naughty North, Betty’s Toybox, and Pleasure Curve coming up on 8/12/2026 – an Interview with Carolyn Eagle8/26/2025 – PolySoCal Round Table with Carolyn Eagle. Certified Sex Educator | Founder & CEO Naughty North, Betty’s Toybox, and Pleasure Curve Carolyn Eagle is a Certified Sex Educator and the visionary behind Viola Media Inc.,…
In this episode of the PolySoCal Podcast, Alonzo Banx is joined by Blake, Michael, Noah, Heather, Cupcake, Patty, Beeb, and Jon for a crowded, connected, and very real conversation about metamours, paramours, kitchen-table poly, autonomy, safety, trust, and control. The episode begins with the basic definitions: a paramour is your own romantic or sexual partner,…
In this episode of the PolySoCal Podcast, Alonzo Banx is joined by Michael, Noah, and Jon for an all-men conversation about what it is really like to be a man in the poly world. The discussion moves past the fantasy version of polyamory and into the harder realities: jealousy, possessiveness, emotional intelligence, communication, authenticity, sex,…
Jealousy in ENM: A Conversation with Dr. Joli Hamilton Joli Hamilton, PhD, is a depth psychologist, relationship coach, and educator specializing in consensual non-monogamy, jealousy, and relational ethics. She is the founder of The Year of Opening®, a yearlong experiential program supporting people through identity shifts and relationship transitions with clarity, care, and integrity. Joli has…
In this episode of the PolySoCal Podcast, Alonzo Banx sits down one-on-one with Dr. Joli Hamilton for a deeper conversation about non-monogamy, depth psychology, and the real work of building relationships that actually function. Dr. Joli shares her own path through polyamory, school, parenting, Jungian psychology, and the creation of The Year of Opening, a…
In this episode of the PolySoCal Podcast, Alonzo Banx is joined by Lance Cole, Captain Lynn, Patty, Heather, Jon, Noah, Cupcake, and Brandi Beckett for a wide-ranging conversation about tantra and how it connects to polyamory. Lance and Captain Lynn explain tantra as a practice of breath, sound, movement, awareness, and deeper connection rather than…
In this episode of the PolySoCal Podcast, Alonzo Banx is joined by Noah, Heather, Cupcake, Patty, Captain Lynn, and Jon for a deeply human conversation about chronic illness, aging, energy changes, caregiving, and what happens when bodies stop cooperating. The discussion moves through acute injury, long-term illness, fibromyalgia, menopause, mental health, caregiver burnout, guilt, and…
Tantra & Polyamory Lance Cole and Captain Lynn Lance E. Cole is a coach, facilitator, and founder of Tribal FireLife, where he guides individuals and couples in embodiedself-discovery, conscious relationships, Tantra, and authenticliving. Drawing from decades of study in philosophy,spirituality, Tantra, sacred sexuality, human behavior, andlived experience in both monogamous and polyamorousrelationship structures, Lance brings…
Can someone be polyamorous for years and then return to monogamy? In this episode, the PolySoCal panel explores what happens when relationship styles change over time. Some guests believe that once you’ve experienced loving multiple people, that understanding never truly leaves you. Others share their journey from polyamory back to monogamy and why that choice…
Is polyamory a path toward deeper connection, or can it become a clever way to avoid it altogether? This week the table welcomes Michael for his first appearance alongside regulars Dahlia and Noah, and the conversation goes straight at one of the most honest questions the show has asked. Michael shares his journey from a…