PolySoCal where curiosity meets respect & growth

We create safe, stigma-free spaces for committed partners to grow together through discussion groups, weekend retreats, and connection-based experiences. Unlike typical lifestyle events, PolySoCal emphasizes emotional growth, consent, discretion, and authentic connection over conquest. Our events are substance-moderate, photo-free, and deeply grounded in trust, safety, and shared values.

FriendsGiving Weekend.

FriendsGiving Weekend.

This year we’re opening our doors for three days of firelight, food, and friendship. It’s a time to gather, share stories, and celebrate community together.

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The PolySoCal Podcast

The PolySoCal Podcast

The PolySoCal Podcast is your invitation into the intimate, complex, and beautiful world of ethical non-monogamy and alternative love—told by the people actually living it.

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Date Night on Us

Date Night on Us

At PolySoCal, we believe that love is something we nurture—through conversation, care, and connection. As part of our ongoing mission to celebrate the real stories behind ethical non-monogamy

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Where couples grow—together.

PolySoCal is a private, invitation-only community for couples and polycules exploring the world of ethical non-monogamy with depth, care, and intention. We create safe, emotionally intelligent spaces where people can stretch their boundaries—not just physically, but relationally, spiritually, and intimately. This is where connection takes precedence over conquest, where exploration happens hand-in-hand with trust, and where love is expanded—not diluted—through conscious choice.

We’re not a party scene. We’re not a dating platform. We’re a community built on consent, emotional maturity, and shared values. Our events are small, private, and carefully curated to support real connection, respectful curiosity, and authentic intimacy. Through group discussions, guided experiences, and softly held play spaces, we help couples navigate this lifestyle not as an escape, but as a practice in deeper love.

At PolySoCal, we believe that alternative love deserves better stories, better spaces, and better support. That’s why we foster a culture of privacy, mutual respect, and consent-based clarity—where all identities, orientations, and relationship structures are welcome, as long as they are rooted in emotional safety and mutual commitment.

This is your space if you’re ready to explore with heart, with honesty, and with your partner by your side. We’re here to help you grow—not away from each other, but toward something even more connected.