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🎙️ PolySoCal Wants You! Do you have a story about 🎙️ PolySoCal Wants You! Do you have a story about polyamory, ethical non monogamy, or alternative relationships? PolySoCal is a community podcast exploring the joys, challenges, lessons, and real life experiences of modern relationships through open and honest conversations. We are looking for individuals, couples, and polycules, both inside and outside the polyamory community, who have unique stories and perspectives to share. All interviews are recorded online, so you can join us from anywhere in the world. Whether you are experienced, newly exploring, supportive of a loved one, or simply curious, your voice matters. Interested in being a guest? polysocal.com/beaguest
Three new features. One very curious community. 💜 Three new features. One very curious community. 💜 Poly Style Test 👑 Are You a Slut? 🎲 PolySoCal Trivia Come play, compare results, and let me know what you discover. https://polysocal.com/
Consensual Non-Monogamy Is on the Rise According t Consensual Non-Monogamy Is on the Rise According to a 2023 YouGov poll, about 1 in 5 Americans has engaged in some form of consensual non-monogamy. And among younger generations, those numbers are even higher. It’s no longer niche—it’s a growing relational norm.
Polyamory Was Quietly Practiced by Famous Creative Polyamory Was Quietly Practiced by Famous Creatives From Virginia Woolf and Vita Sackville-West to Jean-Paul Sartre and Simone de Beauvoir, many iconic thinkers and writers maintained open, multi-partnered love lives—often in defiance of societal norms. They loved freely but with deep emotional intention.
You Can Thank the 1960s for Modern Relationship Th You Can Thank the 1960s for Modern Relationship Therapy While Freudians focused on individuals, the 1960s saw a boom in “systems theory,” leading to couples therapy as we know it. It shifted the focus from “what’s wrong with you” to “how are you relating?”—a game-changer for open and poly relationships.
The “Cuddle Puddle” Has Anthropological Roots Grou The “Cuddle Puddle” Has Anthropological Roots Group cuddling may sound modern, but humans have long gathered in shared warmth. From family sleeping mats in indigenous tribes to the huddling of early humans in caves, physical closeness has always been a survival strategy—and a bonding tool.
. LGBTQ+ “Boston Marriages” Defied 19th Century No . LGBTQ+ “Boston Marriages” Defied 19th Century Norms In the late 1800s, some women—especially in academic or activist circles—formed what were known as "Boston Marriages": lifelong domestic partnerships with other women. They were often romantic or emotionally intimate, existing quietly but proudly outside heterosexual norms.
Some Cultures Celebrate “Chosen Family” Officially Some Cultures Celebrate “Chosen Family” Officially In parts of Latin America, “compadrazgo” (co-parenting or godparenting) is a vital family structure. These chosen connections often hold more weight than biological ties. It reflects a culture where intentional relationships can carry deep commitment.
The “Love Hormone” Isn’t Just for Romance Oxytocin The “Love Hormone” Isn’t Just for Romance Oxytocin—commonly called the love hormone—does more than make you feel good during cuddles or sex. It’s released during eye contact, shared laughter, and even team sports. It builds trust and bonding across all types of relationships, romantic or not.
Monogamy Isn’t the Global Default Anthropologists Monogamy Isn’t the Global Default Anthropologists have found that most human societies throughout history have practiced some form of non-monogamy. In fact, only about 17% of cultures globally are strictly monogamous. The rest either allow or embrace forms of polygyny, polyandry, or open relational structures.
The Original “Dating Profile”? 18th Century Dance The Original “Dating Profile”? 18th Century Dance Cards At balls and formal gatherings, women carried little booklets—“dance cards”—where men would sign up for a dance. It was a structured way to engage socially and romantically, with room for both flirtation and discretion. In many ways, it was the analog precursor to swiping right.
A Tribe in the Amazon Practices “Partible Paternit A Tribe in the Amazon Practices “Partible Paternity” Among the Barí people of Venezuela, it’s believed that a child can have more than one biological father. Multiple men may contribute to a baby’s development by having sex with the mother during pregnancy, and all are considered fathers—sharing parenting responsibilities. It’s a profound example of community-based fatherhood and shared love.
Relationships take work. PolySoCal offers the tool Relationships take work. PolySoCal offers the tools, space, and community to help you grow—whether you're exploring new connections or strengthening the relationship you're already in. Events, podcasts, and real conversations.
Love Can Literally Ease Pain Forget painkillers, j Love Can Literally Ease Pain Forget painkillers, just hold your partner's hand. A study from the University of Colorado Boulder found that when a woman in pain was holding her partner's hand, their brain waves synced up and her pain subsided. The more empathetic the male partner was, the more his touch eased her pain. This phenomenon, called "interpersonal synchronization," suggests that deep emotional connection has a tangible, measurable analgesic effect. Love isn't just a feeling—it's a biological pain reliever.
"Cuffing Season" Is a Real Thing The urge to partn "Cuffing Season" Is a Real Thing The urge to partner up during the colder, darker months is so common it's been dubbed "cuffing season." But there's real science behind it. Reduced sunlight can lead to lower levels of serotonin, the "happy chemical," which can make us feel lonely. Furthermore, studies show testosterone levels in men often peak in the fall. This combination of biological and social factors makes snuggling up with a partner from October to March a very real psychological drive.
Relationships take work. PolySoCal offers the tool Relationships take work. PolySoCal offers the tools, space, and community to help you grow—whether you're exploring new connections or strengthening the relationship you're already in. Events, podcasts, and real conversations.
Just Being Around Someone Can Make You Fall for Th Just Being Around Someone Can Make You Fall for Them The "mere-exposure effect" is a psychological phenomenon where people develop a preference for things simply because they are familiar with them. This applies to people, too. The person who sits next to you in class or works in the same office might become more attractive over time simply because you see them regularly. It’s a subtle but powerful force in attraction, proving that proximity can sometimes be the most potent aphrodisiac.
Solo Polyamory Is a Legitimate Relationship Identi Solo Polyamory Is a Legitimate Relationship Identity Not everyone in the polyamorous community is looking to build a large, interconnected family. "Solo poly" individuals prefer to live independently and are not seeking to entangle their lives with partners in traditional ways (like cohabiting or mixing finances). They prioritize their own autonomy while still forming deep, meaningful, and loving relationships with one or more people. It’s a relationship style that powerfully separates romantic love from the "Relationship Escalator."
The "Marriage Bar" Forced Women to Choose Between The "Marriage Bar" Forced Women to Choose Between a Job and a Husband From the late 1800s until the 1960s, many countries and companies enforced a "marriage bar." This was a policy that explicitly banned hiring married women and often required single female employees to be fired as soon as they got married. The practice was especially common for teachers and clerical workers. It was based on the belief that a woman's place was in the home, forcing millions of women to choose between having a career and having a family.
The "Coolidge Effect" Is the Brain's Craving for N The "Coolidge Effect" Is the Brain's Craving for Novelty Ever notice how sexual excitement can be higher with a new partner? This is a well-documented biological phenomenon called the "Coolidge Effect." It's the tendency for mammals (including humans) to show renewed sexual interest when a novel partner is introduced. It’s an evolutionary drive that encourages spreading one's genes far and wide, and it’s a biological hurdle that long-term couples have to consciously overcome to maintain excitement.
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