What does the word “polyamory” actually mean anymore? In this thoughtful and sometimes spirited roundtable, Alonzo Banx opens the floor to unpack a question that’s become more complicated with time: Has the word “poly” lost its meaning—or expanded it?
From ethical non-monogamy to monogamish dynamics, from swinging to polyfidelity, this episode dives into the evolving language of love and the emotional distinctions that set polyamory apart. With voices ranging from deeply seasoned to freshly curious, the conversation explores honesty, emotional depth, autonomy, and why the words we use still matter.
Is poly just about having multiple partners? Or is it about communication, consent, and conscious choice? Come find out what “poly” means to the people living it—today.
Alonzo Banx (00:01)
Welcome back to the Poly SoCal podcast. I am Alonzo Banks and tonight we’ve got an amazing crew on. I’ve got a question for everyone tonight. Tonight’s going to be a little bit different because you’re here to educate me on something that I just can’t get my head around. So with that, hi everybody.
Oslo (00:19)
Hi.
Craig (00:21)
Bye.
Heather (00:21)
Bye!
Psi (00:21)
Hello.
Colton (00:22)
Hi.
Alonzo Banx (00:24)
Okay, okay, okay. So, like I said, tonight’s going to be a little bit different, but let’s start the normal way. Let’s do a roundtable of everyone. Who are you? Why are you here? And tell us a little bit about yourself. I’m going to go around my screen and we’re going to start with Ms. Heather.
Heather (00:45)
Hi, I’m Heather. I’ve been poly for about three years. I’ve been in the lifestyle for about 10. I’m in a polycule with four people and yeah.
Alonzo Banx (01:01)
And it’s good to have you back. been with us a number of times now. We’ve got another newcomer tonight, Ares.
Ares (01:08)
Hello, I’m Aries. ⁓ I have been in some form of poly or alternative relationship style since I started dating, so about 20 years now, with the exception of my first marriage that was monogamous for five years and was not for me. And I currently have my primary partner who’s my fiance and my girlfriend. Life is good.
Alonzo Banx (01:39)
Life is good. Another new voice on the podcast tonight, Mr. Colton. Welcome, sir.
Colton (01:46)
Hi, I’m happy to be here. ⁓ Well, my wife and I ⁓ have been in the E ⁓ lifestyle for about ⁓ five or six years now. ⁓ We’ve just ⁓ started exploring ⁓ what it means to be polyamorous and what it means to us. And ⁓ I’m looking forward to exploring the topic tonight.
Alonzo Banx (02:10)
Awesome. I’m thrilled to have you. Mr. Craig, another new voice.
Craig (02:15)
Hi everybody, I’m Craig. ⁓ And I probably can say this very safely, I’m probably one of the more conservative ones of the group and up until recently, I didn’t even know what Polly was.
Alonzo Banx (02:30)
We look forward to your questions tonight. It’s always good to have, you know, different opinions and different thoughts. ⁓ Let’s go around. ⁓ Wow, we’ve got so many new voices tonight. Ms. Oslo, welcome.
Oslo (02:43)
Hi, I am Oslo. I have been in poly relationships probably since right out of high school with my ⁓ long-term boyfriend. We had dated for like six years and then we got into a relationship with another couple for about two years or so. I’m currently married and we have like a semi-open relationship and I’ve been in the BDSM kinksing for like once again probably since right out of high school.
Alonzo Banx (03:10)
Thrilled to have you tonight. Next one’s a little more complicated. This is my partner, Miss Psy. Say hello.
Psi (03:18)
Hi, ⁓ my name is Sai and I wouldn’t consider myself Polly. I consider myself monogamish and I am in a it’s complicated relationship. And so I consider myself monogamish was in a monogamous marriage and in the later half of my life and exploring what that means. ⁓ I would consider myself Polly sensual.
And yeah, that’s it.
Alonzo Banx (03:55)
It’s good to have you here. And then, my co-host, Mr. Ash, welcome back again and again.
Psi (03:57)
Thank you.
Ash (04:03)
Hi,
hi, I’m Ash. I will be the co-host at most in-person events. ⁓ I’ve been in a relationship with my partner for about seven years. We’re open for poly, but we don’t have any other partners at the moment, but we just love the love and I’m happy to be back.
Alonzo Banx (04:22)
Good to have you. Okay, so tonight I have a problem. When I started Polysocal now, I get inundated every day with way more email than I ever expected. And I’ve gotten so many emails that have just boggled my brain. I’m old. I freely admit that. Those of you who can see me, it’s obvious. I know my voice sounds like a teenager, so those who don’t see me, it’s not that obvious.
But we’ll say I started in the poly world when I was 18. In reality, I was part of the Rocky Horror Groups long before I turned 18. So we’re going to claim 18, which would now make it 44 years. I have been through poly and kink and used terms like swinger and alternative lifestyles. And now the term poly has become really popular. And I have no idea what that word means anymore.
I get inundated every day with single people telling me that they’re single poly. I had someone the other day explain to me that they’re monogamous poly. yeah, it seemed that he was in a monogamous relationship and his wife didn’t know that he was poly.
I can’t make this up, So, what I’m looking for tonight is make me a smarter human being. What does the word poly even mean anymore? Someone help me out.
All right, Heather. Heather’s hand was up first.
Heather (06:05)
I think for me, poly is a way of thinking and the way of processing your emotions and feelings and communicating about them. I would say a monogamous relationship, you don’t really talk about your jealous feelings or any of those harder emotions and boundaries. ⁓ In a poly relationship, you definitely talk about those feelings a lot more. ⁓
your desires and the things you want and stuff are more transparent in a poly relationship.
Alonzo Banx (06:42)
So if I understand your contention, it’s Polly is an emotional side and not physically playing around with other people.
Heather (06:51)
would say poly is more emotional versus physical. I mean, it can be, but I feel that poly is more emotions and communication and how you think and how you feel.
Alonzo Banx (07:05)
Psi you were about to say something.
Psi (07:15)
Yes, I have been within a heavily Polly community, friends within that community over the past decade. And what I’ve noticed is that Polly means completely different things to different people, different couples, different singles. I don’t know that there is one definition of it.
As for myself, I think of the word polyamorous, which is multiple loves. And thinking that would mean then that you can share love with various people, which I would also take to intend being lovers, sexual relationship. I consider myself polysensual, given that although I prefer to be monogamous in my relationship.
I enjoy being affectionate with multiple people, with friends, ⁓ physical as far as hugging, cuddling, but not necessarily the sexual part.
Alonzo Banx (08:29)
Anyone else? Ash.
Ash (08:33)
So I definitely agree with Heather when I say like, when she says that communication is a very big part of it, because as you said, the gentleman who says, I’m poly, but my wife doesn’t know and I’m married, that’s technically cheating and not fully poly in my head because you are not communicating openly about how you feel and what you are comfortable with or what you’re desiring. So to be in a poly relationship, communication is a huge deal because you’re juggling a lot more people’s emotions.
Oslo (08:57)
.
Ash (09:00)
Coming from a background of a lot of relationships that involve jealousy and me just being a genuine loving person where I want to hug my friends I tell them that I love them. I use pet names with everybody even strangers It’s just the way that I’m designed You know a in the past it was difficult because it was like well, why are you flirting with that person? Well, I’m not really even flirting with that person. I’m just being genuinely nice
But if you’re lacking the communication when it does come to your relationship and you are spreading that love in a way, there’s boundaries that are being crossed if you’re not taking into consideration how other people feel. communication is huge, huge thing in poly, in my opinion.
Alonzo Banx (09:47)
Is poly just about, and Heather give me one second, is poly just about the emotion? I say that because we use the term polysocal. And in a lot of communities, a lot of kink communities, that word’s now being used for anyone who has multiple partners. In fact, to my old ears, I hear poly used very much like dating. People who are seeing more than one people use the term poly.
As well, please.
Ash (10:15)
in
Oslo (10:18)
me? Okay, cool. ⁓ Sorry, repeat question.
Alonzo Banx (10:18)
Yeah, please.
In the kink community, I see a lot of people using it just being dating multiple people. They’ll use poly the way we used to use the word swinger or the way that we’ll use the word, you know, alternative lifestyles through the nineties. Now the term of art from my ears has become poly.
Oslo (10:24)
I mean,
I do, hear it a lot and I think it’s often kind of misused because like Ash and Heather said that you have to have open communication and if you don’t have that you can say your polyamorous all you want but like that other guy he’s probably cheating on his wife at this point like she doesn’t know about it. It’s there’s so many other terms and I think sometimes that one’s maybe misused because if you genuinely love someone you need to be
open communication and it’s not like, know, as I said, it’s not always physical. It could just be a deep loving connection you have with another person. ⁓ But if it is going to be physical and you have a primary or this or that, you need to be super upfront. These are my needs. This is what I’m into. Are you OK with that? Because not every relationship is going to be poly. You’re not always going to have find some connection that the other person’s OK with this, you know? So you can’t I in my opinion, you can’t always just be like, I’m polyamorous.
This is how all my relationships are gonna be. Because you don’t know that.
Alonzo Banx (11:45)
Yeah, I agree. think it is super confusing right now. Aries Colton, Craig, know y’all want to say something, but Aries was up first. Aries, you got for us?
Ares (11:55)
Yeah, so like, like I’ve also been sort of in the scene of a lifestyle, whatever you want to call it for a long time. And I’m also a giant word nerd. love language and how it evolves. And I think that the term for poly evolved just like any other word does, like, you know, cool, something’s cool, it’s not necessarily cold. Like it’s a really neat thing. So
I feel like the way people have been using poly has evolved in that regard. And because I’m such a word nerd, that’s also why I prefer ethical non-monogamy because the ethical part of that stresses the importance of being upfront, being communicative, having those conversations to let people know like, hey, you’re not the only one in my life, which is the right thing to do.
And of course, then that’s, you know, the non-monogamy. I’m not monogamous. You’re not the only person that I’m affectionate with or sexual with or whatever that looks like for you. And the overuse of poly in that regard is kind of annoying. I don’t even hardly use it anymore, to be honest.
Oslo (13:00)
you
Alonzo Banx (13:16)
I want to jump on something you said and, Craig, I know I’m going to get to you in just a second. What is the difference then between poly ethical non-monogamy, consensual non-monogamy and just dating multiple people?
Oslo (13:31)
Hmm.
Heather (13:35)
I can date multiple people and not tell them I’m dating multiple people. I can have Tom on the side and Suzy on the other side and they have, they don’t know anything about each other. But I’m having a great time that I’m dating multiple people, but I’m not polyamorous with them. If I was polyamorous with them, Tom and Suzy would know about each other and know what I’m doing.
Oslo (13:56)
Thank
Alonzo Banx (14:02)
So by that definition, poly is core honesty.
Oslo (14:09)
I think it’s like relationship too. Like you actually, it’s a full blown relationship you have with another person instead of just like dating, like she was saying. You can date and not have to like be in a relationship or be totally upfront. mean, people go on dates all the time. I mean, I dated someone and he was dating like three or four other girls. It didn’t bother me because we weren’t like in a relationship. We didn’t have that conversation of like, this is what we are. You know, these are…
limitations and stuff when I entered my first polyamorous relationship. was me in my primary and my girlfriend in her primary and we all sat down and had that conversation like this is what’s not the rules I guess but like what’s everybody’s boundaries what’s okay like it’s genuinely like a relationship like you would have with just one person.
Alonzo Banx (14:58)
Greg, you had something you wanted to say a while back and I didn’t get to you.
Craig (15:02)
no, it’s okay. So, ⁓ like I said, I’m a little bit of the outsider here, but ⁓ so I hope I say this correctly. Number one, evolving language. I believe that’s where evil grows. You must have consensus ⁓ on language. And as everyone sits and gravitates to their own definition of what something is, I think all that winds up doing is equaling a bunch of hurt feelings.
Next, in trying to understand before this podcast what poly means, my mind took me down one path that I can only think of. At least in my opinion, relationships are built on friendship, partnership, and romance. And I believe that in the good old days, you try to find somebody that checked all the different boxes. But as the world became a smaller community,
we start to learn that not one person is going to check every box, leaving a void in your life. And I believe that you people just want to seek out something that they’re missing. So although poly may gravitate towards a more physical nature, what I think it is, it’s just people having other people with them that satisfies a specific need. Like, you know,
Alonzo, me and you are gonna hang out and watch the football games together. Because that’s something we’re both really passionate about. And my, we’ll call it my girlfriend just doesn’t like to do it. You have entered into a passion of mine that my girlfriend can’t fulfill. Now just expand that on other needs. And I think where we see so much divorce and so much failing relationships is the lack of
that fulfillment of those three things. How many people have you known were great lovers, but they were horrible friends? They were great friends and great partners where they built a beautiful life for themselves financially, but then sleep together. The list just goes on and on. Enter Polly. I hope that makes sense.
Alonzo Banx (17:22)
Anyone have any thoughts about that?
Go ahead, Heather.
Heather (17:30)
I don’t really agree with being Polly. How you said Craig that different partners meet different needs and that’s why you seek out Polly. I mean my husband Bebe meets all of my needs and I’m a nerd so I do board gaming, chess competitions and all that galore and he’s there for it 100 % and I don’t have to go to somebody else to meet those needs.
Um, then that’s not why I do poly. So I don’t know. Uh, God, uh, sharing the love, uh, being loved by multiple people, giving love to multiple people. Um.
Craig (18:03)
then why do you do it?
So nothing to
cut you off, but by definition, isn’t that a need that you’re fulfilling? You may have more types of love that you want to give and you have a certain need to be needed. Hence, therefore, you need to seek out others to fulfill that missing void that just one person can’t give you. By definition, you have agreed with what I’m saying.
Heather (18:43)
Craig, I’m gonna have to agree with you.
Oslo (18:45)
.
Alonzo Banx (18:49)
Aries, you wanted to add something into that and Colton, I swear I’m coming to you. Promise. But Aries, you had a hand there for a minute.
Ares (18:58)
Yeah, because I think maybe for some people the concept of having more than one partner is to maybe sort of fill in the gaps that other partners don’t or check the boxes that other partners don’t. And that’s great. Like my primary, there are certain things that he’s into that I would really much rather him have somebody else to go do that with, whether it’s a romantic interest or one of his buddies or whatever.
But for me, I think the reason that he and I decided that this was for us was because they like, my favorite food in the world is macaroni and cheese. If all I could eat every single day for the rest of my natural born life, every single meal was macaroni and cheese, totally cool with that. But that’s not to say if somebody walks up and goes, look, tacos. I’m not gonna turn down tacos. And the macaroni and cheese isn’t mad about it, so why would I turn down the tacos?
Oslo (19:51)
You
Alonzo Banx (19:52)
no one turns down tacos.
Craig (19:56)
Yeah, no, I think, I think again, that’s an affirmation. And what I’m trying to say is that if all you know is mac and cheese and you’re content with that, that’s fine. But as the world becomes a closer knit community and we’re exposed to more and more different things, especially with the power of the internet, that may just give you enough sensation or, or provoke you.
to go and try something outside of mac and cheese. So, I mean, and again, I really can’t say I have any experience in this community. All I was trying to do was identify language or a definition and justify that definition. And the only thing I could think of in my wacky logical mind was, is that as people we have needs.
if all your needs aren’t being met by that one individual, are you open with your partner enough to explore satisfying your needs in other areas? And I think where the breakdown is, especially where Alonzo’s going here is, do we just kind of put a label on this and call it sexual? No, in my opinion, it could be almost anything. I love extreme couponing.
My partner hates it, but darn it, if I found a person that wants to wake up really early and go through the Sunday paper and start snip, snip, snipping, that is a need that I’m fulfilling with somebody else.
Alonzo Banx (21:37)
Mr. Colton, you’ve been way too quiet.
Colton (21:41)
All good. ⁓ I think I’ll pull it back a little bit to the topic for tonight. And just in explaining what polyamory is and how difficult that is, because language does change, words change, and for good reasons. And I think ⁓ part of it may have come that swinger has become kind of a negative connotation in society. And ⁓ polyamory has become kind of that ⁓
underdog just like it had been for gay, trans, the LGBTQ sort of movement. It’s kind of moving in that same direction and as it should ⁓ for as far as rights goes, it’s a very attractive thing and I think that we should all stand for it. ⁓ And I think that it’s developed in its own way as well in terms of it’s not just polyamory as one thing. ⁓
It’s got dozens of different separations now, ⁓ polyfidelity, hierarchy, non-hierarchical, kitchen table. I can go on and on about the different definitions of polyamory and I’m sure that they’re still being added to. It’s just what fits the individual and ⁓ I certainly don’t even know what fits us. It’s just that’s what language does. You have to find something that describes you. ⁓ And at the end of the day, ⁓ anybody that’s… ⁓
Paul Yamaris is probably going to have to explain themselves because no one’s going to be the same as another.
Alonzo Banx (23:15)
I think that’s a very true statement, ⁓ especially from what I hear every day. People want to define themselves. We live in an environment that that’s very difficult. But Ash, you have something you want to say.
Oslo (23:18)
you
Psi (23:24)
Hmm.
Ash (23:27)
Yeah, so I agree that ⁓ I feel like polyamory is becoming more accepting. And I also agree that the word has been damaged in a way because in my head, a swinger is someone who wants to trade their partners. They’re not really looking for something solidified with another couple. They’re more just into it for the intimate play. And then the term open relationship came along and people used open relationship as an excuse to do things behind their partner’s back and not really communicate about it.
And it was used more often than not where they’re like, oh, well, I’m in an open relationship, but we just don’t talk about it. It’s very hush hush. And because polyamory has become such an accepting term and it’s becoming more of a popular idea, I feel like it’s used in a negative condensation to like for, like the gentleman who’s like, well, I’m poly, but my wife doesn’t know. like, you know, so if they use the word poly, it, it’s almost like giving them a free pass if they use it in the right context with people.
And I feel like that’s where the confusion is coming in that it’s, it’s missing. It’s lacking the, the actual meaning behind it is. Like, you know, Heather says it’s not only just physical, but it’s emotional and it’s having the people to, know, as Craig said, fill different parts of your, your being that might be lacking in with other people. And, you know, it’s, easy to use a word that people might be more gentle to, to get your way in something that might not be exactly what that is. If that makes sense.
Alonzo Banx (24:58)
Yeah, absolutely. So let me go around the room one more time. Give me the two line version of what poly means to you. The real cut and dry Aries. What does poly mean?
Ares (25:19)
So, poly, if someone were to come up to me and say, I’m poly, that tells me they are not in monogamous relationship, whether they’re single or partnered up. If you’re poly, you’re not monogamous. However that looks, you have multiple partners, one other partner. Poly is…
Not monogamous.
Alonzo Banx (25:52)
Mr. Coulton?
Colton (25:56)
I think for me it’s the addition of ⁓ familiarity and emotion.
Alonzo Banx (26:04)
Miss Heather.
Heather (26:07)
I think for me, poly really means that the person has more autonomy in who they love and how they love.
Alonzo Banx (26:15)
I like it. Great.
Craig (26:17)
⁓ seeking the fulfillment of missing needs from your current partner in a mutually exclusive or in a mutual condoning way.
Alonzo Banx (26:32)
Awesome.
Oslo (26:33)
⁓ I think it’s like the capacity to be in multiple relationships and be honest about it and by relationship I mean like actual like loving romantic even physical relationship with other people and be have the capacity to do that and be honest about it because if you’re not I really in my opinion it’s not really that that poly I think that’s what defines the big difference between what polyamorous is and other
titles for relationships.
Alonzo Banx (27:06)
Miss Sai.
Psi (27:09)
My definition would be very similar to Oslo. think it’s being in multiple relationships where there is the awareness between each person that you’re in relationship with and agreements and boundaries and discussions about that. And I do believe that it includes versus just couponing, it doesn’t include a sexual component as well as a heart component to it.
Alonzo Banx (27:37)
Ms. Ash?
Ash (27:39)
I’m going to say it is loving to love and making yourself open and vulnerable on not only just an emotional level, but a physical level with more than one person.
Alonzo Banx (27:52)
So let me play devil’s advocate here with one more question. Well, we’ll probably have more than one, but the next question, as we’ve said, the term swinger has been much maligned in modern society. A lot of the terms open relationships are not a, it’s almost a derogatory term right now. So what is the appropriate term? If we’ve all decided that poly,
is an emotional component in sharing and swinging and open relationships are a negative, then what is the poly, what is the good word for someone like that? And up in order, Ash, yours were up first.
Ash (28:41)
I don’t see swinging or open relationship as a negative term. just feel like people have, at least with open relationships have taken advantage of how they define that term. And I feel like poly is just like, just the next thing that is more accepting. But I don’t think being a swinger or being in a relationship, open relationship is negative to each their own. Like, you know, and that’s one of the biggest things about being poly is like,
We like what we like. It doesn’t really matter what anyone thinks of it. And you know, if someone has a problem with you being a swinger, well, other swingers don’t care. ⁓
Alonzo Banx (29:19)
You know, I gotta say that I get a lot of email every day and those words are used very negatively. People are very defensive that they are not swingers. They are not open. ⁓ The general population defends that word poly for what we used to call swingers. Which is where my confusion is coming from. But Mr. Colton, had a comment.
Colton (29:43)
Well, I was I’ll just add to that thought. I don’t like the word swinger in that sense, I guess, because I didn’t want to class myself or my wife as that because we don’t like one night stands, which never have. And I think a lot of people associate swingers with that sort of thing that you would go meet somebody and you’d be intimate once and you’d never see them again, you know, the whole
he’s in the fishbowl sort of thing, which was what it was thought of for a long time. ⁓ And that’s not us. We want to meet people, become close with them, very good friends, and if it’s not an ongoing relationship, it might become something even deeper, whether you say you love them or not. But you can become very good friends, and you can have a sexual relationship with them at the same time. if we can’t define that as being poly, then
then we might just not define it. We might just say that we’re in an open relationship and this is what we are looking for.
Alonzo Banx (30:45)
Ash you looked like, or Aries sorry, you looked like you wanted to say something.
Ares (30:53)
Yeah, guess kind of, think, because when you’re talking about any sort of non-traditional relationship where it’s not just, you one partner, two partner, that’s it. ⁓ For me, it’s kind of along the same, because I’m also a member of the LGBTQIA Alphabet community. There’s so many of them now. And because…
I don’t like having to go through the defining of exactly what I is to whoever asks, like if they ask, I’m queer. That’s like the blanket term. I’m not a straight woman. I’m queer. People say, ⁓ you’re a monogamous relationship. No, we’re, we’re poly. That’s just sort of the blanket term. And then within that, okay, are you, I have play partners that identify as swingers. have a
people that I enjoy that are members of polycules that I’m not part of. I’m just kind of their little comet and I roll around. We have a good time. But I think poly has just sort of become the blanket definition for a non-traditional relationship status.
Alonzo Banx (32:17)
I think I agree with that statement. Mr. Colton, had something to add.
Colton (32:20)
think to add into it, think that ⁓ poly can also be something that could be almost more public facing and be a bit more acceptable than being a swinger as well. ⁓ In most ⁓ states, you could probably even say countries, ⁓ swinging and even polyamory is not a protected class like being ⁓ gay or trans and on and all the letters.
⁓ you can be fired from your job for even being found out for being a swinger ⁓ and not have any other cause. ⁓ And being polyamorous and saying that you’re dedicated to your partners and you love your partners and it’s the same thing as being anogamous, just having multiple can maybe sound a bit more attractive to other people and maybe they could understand that rather than just saying you’re a swinger and maybe ⁓ that’s why people are using the term more broadly. That’s just my thought.
Alonzo Banx (33:13)
Actually, I think you’re dead on with that one. Anyone else? Any final thoughts as we get in the home stretch here? There’s also any thoughts from the Kink community? I’ll put you on the spot for that one.
Oslo (33:26)
Oh gosh, I don’t know, I was thinking about that. was wondering like when did Swinger become a bad term? Like I have friends that still identify as that and I’m open to that too. Would I think that that’s the same thing as Polly in my opinion? I wouldn’t because Swinger is, it could be a one-night stand, it could be I’m never gonna see you again. I’m also a demisexual so I don’t really get that feeling unless I have that emotional connection with someone I…
love their personality. It’s not just, you look good. I’m going to hook up with you. So for me, Polly was, I was very much in love with these people. All the same. ⁓ They did offer different things. I had a connection with my girlfriend that was like, obviously I couldn’t have with either of my boyfriends. So, but I think swingers and Polly are different, but I don’t think either one’s bad. But I do think people use the terms interchangeably sometimes.
because it means different things for different people maybe.
Alonzo Banx (34:28)
I think all the terms are pretty much like that. Everyone’s going to kind of assign their own values, their own definitions. Messiah, any final thoughts?
Oslo (34:31)
Hmm.
Psi (34:39)
Yes. So I view, ⁓ the reason I’d self-define as monogamous and not poly is because I do view poly as being having multiple relationships, not just perhaps ⁓ having sexual experiences at a party or at a club or something like that. ⁓ So I do believe there needs to be some type of
⁓ differing definitions ⁓ between what polyamorous is and just having multisexual relationships that one night and such.
Alonzo Banx (35:25)
Ash, anything? Last words?
Ash (35:30)
I feel like everyone here hit good points about the topic in itself. And I feel it kind of goes back to our conversation from last week that everybody’s going to have a different opinion of it. People are going to see it in different ways. People are going to judge it in different ways. And it really is just comes down to like how someone personally feels about it.
Alonzo Banx (35:50)
And I think that is the perfect cap on the end of tonight’s conversation. Thank you everyone for being here. It’s been another awesome roundtable. A great night. We had some great news voices in the crowd. ⁓ Thank you. I hope you all come back.
Colton (36:05)
Thanks for having me.
Alonzo Banx (36:05)
Good night,
everyone.
Ares (36:07)
Good night.
Craig (36:07)
Bye.
Oslo (36:08)
Bye.