What Happens Here, Stays Here.

At PolySoCal, privacy isn’t optional—it’s foundational. We are committed to creating a space where individuals and couples can connect, explore, and grow without fear of exposure or judgment. This commitment is upheld by our strict no-photo, no-disclosure policy.
Our Core Privacy Guidelines:
- No Photography or Video: Absolutely no photos, videos, or recordings are allowed at any events. Phones are to be kept away during group activities unless otherwise specified by hosts (e.g., to coordinate logistics).
- No Sharing of Names or Identities: Members’ names, personal details, professions, or relationship dynamics may not be shared outside the group without explicit consent from all parties involved.
- No External Disclosure: What happens at PolySoCal—whether at events, in private conversations, or in group discussions—stays within the community. Sharing stories, identities, or experiences with people outside the group is strictly prohibited.
- Consent Includes Reputation: Just as we honor physical boundaries, we honor the right of every member to protect their personal life and public identity. Even well-meaning stories can cause harm if shared without full, enthusiastic permission.
Building a Culture of Trust:
- We ask that all members hold one another’s privacy with the same care you’d want your own held.
- Discretion is part of consent. It applies to presence, conversations, connections, and all personal revelations shared in confidence.
Violations of this policy may result in removal from the community. We don’t take that lightly—because trust is what makes this space possible.