Step away from the everyday and into a gently held space of connection, exploration, and shared presence. Our Overnight Experiences are designed for emotionally grounded couples who are curious about ethical non-monogamy and want to grow together—not apart.
A Space Like No Other Held at our private retreat facility just an hour east of Los Angeles, this evening gathering welcomes four to six couples into a warm, natural setting of gardens, lagoons, and cozy shared spaces. Whether you’re enjoying a quiet moment beneath the trees or connecting by the fire, every inch of this space is crafted to support safety, curiosity, and emotional depth.
Evening Flow We begin at 5 PM with a community potluck. PolySoCal provides the foundations (fresh, nourishing basics) and each couple contributes a dish to share. This isn’t just dinner—it’s the start of grounding in community, sharing presence, and arriving fully.
At 7 PM, we move into a welcoming circle. You’ll be gently guided through connection exercises and grounding practices, helping everyone settle in and get to know each other beyond the surface.
From there, the evening opens into a facilitated presentation or themed activity—ranging from intimacy-building practices to guided discussions or partner-based experiences. Each gathering is different, but always anchored in emotional presence and shared respect.
As the evening continues, we shift into open connection time. Some couples may explore our softly held play space. Others might prefer quiet conversation, fireside cuddles, or stargazing in the garden. There are no expectations. Only options.
Stay or Gently Depart You are welcome to stay overnight or leave once the evening winds down. Our retreat space includes a limited number of rooms and sleeping areas, available on a first-request basis. Many couples choose to stay for the full arc—falling asleep in peace and waking up more connected.
Who This Is For This experience is crafted for couples and polycules who value:
- Emotional safety and discretion
- Consent-centered exploration
- Connection over conquest
- A slow, grounded pace
Whether you’re just beginning your ENM journey or deepening a well-established dynamic, you’ll find a welcoming, respectful environment.
Contribution This is not a ticketed event. It is a member-supported experience. A suggested donation will be shared in your invitation, covering food, space, and facilitator support. All contributions go directly toward sustaining the space and community.
Ready to Join? If you’re a current member, you can RSVP through the private portal. New to PolySoCal? Schedule a welcome call to explore whether our community is right for you.
This isn’t a party. It’s not a performance. It’s an invitation—to show up, to open up, and to grow alongside your partner in a space that honors your pace.