Three ways to grow together. One community of care.

At PolySoCal, our events are more than gatherings—they are carefully held experiences designed to support deeper connection, emotional maturity, and consensual exploration. Whether you’re looking for a single evening of intimacy, a themed weekend full of play, or an unforgettable shared adventure, there’s a space here for you.

All events are private, members-only, and grounded in trust, clarity, and discretion.

2025 Schedule of event

All 2025 Events are full, watch for 2026 schedule soon.

Late-Night / Overnight ENM & Passion Gathering (LA County)

A gentle introduction into the heart of PolySoCal. These single-evening retreats, held at our lush private estate east of Los Angeles, Read more here

Creative Couples’ Themed Exploration Weekends

Step into a crafted world of shared story and playful expression. From Roman Bacchanals to oceanic mermaid voyages, these Friday-to-Sunday immersions are where fantasy meets emotional integrity.
Read more here

Extended Trips

TBD – Disclosed to memebers
For those ready to go further—geographically and emotionally. These destination-based journeys (from New Orleans to private sailing voyages) are intimate, curated adventures for 4–6 couples. Read more here.

What to Know Before You Register

PolySoCal events are small by design—typically just 4 to 6 couples per gathering. That intimacy is what makes our experiences so safe, so connective, and so impactful. But it also means that every RSVP matters.

Please sign up early.
Many of our events require a minimum number of participants to run. If too many members wait until the last minute, we may be forced to cancel—not because of lack of interest, but because of delayed sign-ups. If you’re excited to attend, don’t hold back. Your early commitment helps make the experience possible for everyone.

All events are for members only.
To attend any PolySoCal event, you must first complete your welcome call and become a member. This helps us ensure a trusted, aligned community where safety and shared values come first.

We’ll always communicate clearly about event status, contribution expectations, and what’s included. And we’ll never oversell or overbook.

Because this is more than a calendar. It’s a community.

Want to become a member it all starts with an email : contact us